“If you have the ability to love, love yourself first”. -Charles Bukowski Self love is the best love. Without truly understanding who we are, we are lost. So lost that we allow people to love us with cruelty, unworthiness, and badly. We all deserve unconditional love. Love that is selfless, truthful, kind, unconditional, magical. But we should most importantly give that love to ourselves.
We teach people how to treat us. When we are driven, head strong, not easily defeated. People will see and know that this is someone who can not be trifled with. When you give yourself the love you need. People can only add value to your life. Not be the value to you. Figuring out your likes, dislikes, goals, dreams, and what truly makes you happy should be a priority. You should be a priority in your life. We can never truly love anyone unless we truly love ourselves. Start taking care of you. Love yourself, and watch the people who come into your life love you without limits.